Cassie's Law: Provide Legal Protection for Children From Sexually Abusive Parents

This is a posting of a petition that some wonderful person on Facebook left on my Facebook page of the same name (Address Child Sexual Abuse) and I am of course compelled to pass it along here!
Please contact this site and sign the petition!


https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/cassies-law-provide-legal-protection-children-sexually-abusive-parents/W8n30krj




And please copy and past this flyer with this blog address.  Thank you!

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Will You Help Promote This Blog?

Some time ago I made up 6 or 7 of these and went around and put them on college billboards to promote traffic to this blog.  I believe it helped.  I recently came across this one and thought I would post it here to see if anyone would have a place in their part of the world to help me place more light on such a dark subject.  Please copy and post at a college billboard, a community center, a church or anywhere you think it would be appropriate.   I do believe the more people that are reached the more education there is and the fewer children will be sexually molested.  Thank you in advance for whatever you can do!

Pedophiles Are Serial Killers of Childhoods

I recently watched a documentary about Carl Panzram.   "Carl Panzram: The Spirit of Hatred and Vengeance.  It was a very interesting and chilling story.                                                                     

Carl Panzram (June 28, 1891 – September 5, 1930) was an American serial killer, rapist, arsonist and burglar. He is known for his confession to his only friend, prison guard Henry Lesser. In graphic detail, Panzram confessed to 22 murders, and to having sodomized over 1,000 males. He used aliases such as "Carl Baldwin", "Jack Allen" and "Jefferson Baldwin" in Oregon; "Jeff Davis" in Idaho and Montana; "Jefferson Davis" in California and Montana; "Jeff Rhodes" in Montana; "John King"; and "John O'Leary" in New York.

Carl Panzram Quote:  "I am sorry for only two things.  These two things are, I am sorry that I have mistreated a few animals in my lifetime and I am sorry that I am unable to murder the whole damned human race."

Carl Panzram had a very rough life and he turned that anger into a major crime spree.  A guard at one of the last prisons he was in gave him paper and pencil to write his story.  It is a chilling account of a disturbing upbringing and many abuses he endured.  The last words of his autobiography were quite insightful and That is what I wanted to share. 

                                                            A View of the Crime Problem

                                                     (Where it begins and how to prevent it)

"Every child has some criminal tendencies.  It is your place to correct those traits and teach them the right way to live while they are young and their minds are forming.  Then, when they reach the age of reason and action it will be quite natural for them to live clean upright honorable lives.  In that way you will stop crime at its source  before it begins.  The main causes of why we are and what we are is because of our improper teaching, lack of knowledge and our environments.  

Teach them the meanings of such things as Truth, Lie, Honor, Hate, Love.  For each lesson, just take One Word.  For instance take the word TRUTH.  Teach them by example, word and deed until they thoroughly

know that word TRUTH.  

If you are really sincere in wanting to teach those boys to grow up into young men, then you will have to go about it far differently than the way I was taught."

Carl Panzram



From the blogger:

The ripples of survival of child sexual abuse go on for a long time.  It is a life sentence.  

I really believe that Pedophiles Are Serial Killers of Childhoods.

A Few Greeting Cards I thought of for my Relatives

Oh Look....I can see your Cankles from here!  

I see continued Passive Aggressiveness!

If I would send this last card it would not need any caption on the inside.  It is self explanatory.  And of course......If I were to follow the pattern of passive aggressiveness, The card would be unsigned. 

I do not know if I will print any of these off and make them into cards to send to a few choice people but I do like to try to find some kind of humor in things.  As for me, I have been thinking about what some in this world want and demand from me.   As far as my parents, they want me to deny more than 9 years of child sexual abuse.  Thats all!   And then when you are in there lives in the guidelines that they establish, they expect you to edit out 98 percent of my life because they are not going to support me anyway.

So....you think that That is ever going to happen?!?

I would love to propose the same restrictions on them.  I do not think that Anyone would agree to this!


It's always nice if and when you find a friend who can be a wise father or mother figure.  I have known some people like this along the journey of my life.  I like to observe and thank God for people like this and often I see these kinds of behaviors with strangers on the street.  Let's all try to observe and send out good energies when we see this.  And let us try to be nurturing and caring for those who need it.  Maybe you and I can be nurturing Aunt and Uncle figures.

Reading Spiritual Books

I rotate my reading materials.  Art books, biographies and spiritual books are some of the rotation.

For spiritual books I have turned to Sylvia Browne.  I joined her church many years ago and have found much comfort in her words.  As Gnostics we believe we have chosen what experiences we 

have to test our own spirituality.   I actually remember conversations with my spirit guide while choosing all that I was going to experience.    I also remember conversations with a few other people before I incarnated into this life.   Knowing this is nice but the bumps in the road are still difficult to endure.  

Recently I came upon another author who is a psychic medium as well by the name of Rosemary Altea.

I am reading her book Proud Spirit.  "Take what you want and leave the rest" is what is always said in the church I belong to.  I have found many of the same teachings in this Rosemary Altea book and look forward to reading more.  I also checked out her website which I found to be very interesting.  

One part of her website at the top (just right of center) is a title.   "Own Your Power"   I am going to investigate Rosemary's Lessons to "Own My Own Power".   

One part of her book caught me off guard a little.  Rosemary Altea has the ability to channel spirits who have crossed over.  She was channeling an old woman known to be "The little old lady with no teeth".

In a trance session for a spiritual class, the little old lady asked if she could give them anything for Christmas what would they like?  

Someone asked for peace in the world.  Peace and harmony in the family.  Healing and the healing light spread throughout the world.  All wars to end.  Food for the starving.  All selfless all giving and all loving ideas for Christmas Presents.  

The teacher in trance, the little old lady with no teeth listened without interruption until they had finished.  Then, and with a gentle smile she replied:

"Because I am love and come from love, and because I am your teacher, I must tell you....if I could give you a gift for Christmas, I would give you the gift of pain...I would give you the gift of heartache...and I would give you the gift of tears...for it is only through these that you will learn, that you will grow, and that you will come to understand the nature of  your soul, and of your strength."

Sylvia Browne has said pretty much the same thing.  Sylvia always asks, "What have you learned during the good times?"  The really tough times in your life are what you really learn from.  

I actually met Sylvia Browne many years ago long before she has become as known as she is today. 

My parents rented a cabin by a lake and Sylvia and her family were at one of the nearby cabins.  

She gave me a mini reading and told me with wide eyes, "You chose a lot!"  I replied, "It didn't feel like I chose a lot."  She did not elaborate, but now I know.  

I encourage everyone to search out spiritual books.  I will recommend the books I read but certainly want you to go to where your heart tells you to go as far as spiritual growth.  I always believe that while religion can be a wonderful thing, Spirituality is where it's at.  Religion is a man made thing.  Spirituality goes directly to God.  

Since the "Other Side" has no negativity, I believe we understand the lessons much more clearly once we cross over.  I believe there will be a great amount of study that I look forward to.  Often times there are a great many things that happen on this earth that I just can't "wrap my mind around" and I look forward to knowing what those events were all about which will bring me to a greater spirituality.

Virtuous Pedophiles Website

This is a site I came upon recently and wanted to pass it on to you.  I have not delved into the entire content of the site but if there are pedophiles out there who recognize their attractions to young children and make every effort to Not Molest the children they are attracted to I believe they deserve a great deal of support.  I will be reading more on their site and hope you check in and have empathy and support for these Virtuous Pedophiles. 

" I’m a 20-year-old man who has been trying to deal with an attraction to young girls since I was 13. Women just don't interest me. I wish with all my soul that I could have a brain that's wired normally. I know that I can never act on what I feel, but I need to speak to a therapist because I don't think I can get through this on my own. But if I talk to a therapist he could report me, because I have to talk about my attraction to young girls. I don’t know whether he would or not and don't even know how to go about getting more information. Even the friendships I have are in danger of falling apart because I can't just keep saying 'I'm fine' and I can't talk to anyone about my problem. I think about suicide a lot. "

Anonymous pleas like this show up constantly on the web. This man is a heartbreakingly anguished example of what we call a Virtuous Pedophile, virtuous because he is not going to do anything with a real child. We too are Virtuous Pedophiles, and there are a great many of us, though few people know of our existence. To admit our condition is to invite suspicion, hatred, and social ostracism. Virtuous doesn't mean we think we're better than the average person, just that we're not worse.

We do not choose to be attracted to children, and we cannot make that attraction go away. But we can resist the temptation to abuse children sexually, and many of us present no danger to children whatsoever. Yet we are despised for having a sexual attraction that we did not choose, cannot change, and successfully resist. This hatred has its consequences; many of us suffer from depression and sometimes even commit suicide. Paradoxically, the hatred actually increases the risk of child sexual abuse by making us afraid to admit our condition to others, thus discouraging us from seeking treatment. More of us could lead productive, happy, law-abiding lives if we could open up to people who would treat us not as monsters but as human beings with an unfortunate burden to bear.

The goals of our organization are to reduce the stigma attached to pedophilia by letting people know that a substantial number of pedophiles do not molest children, and to provide peer support and information about available resources to help pedophiles lead happy, productive lives. Our highest priority is to help pedophiles never abuse children. We hope you will explore our web site with an open mind.

http://www.virped.org   Please check out this site!  Thank you.