During the first year of when my memories of child sexual abuse memories were emerging I was asked by the therapist I was seeing at the time if I wanted to press charges against my father. I declined saying I felt if I did he might commit suicide and people would hate me even more. They would blame me. With the recent ongoing silent treatment I am getting from 99% of the paternal side of the family I am thinking and rethinking and wondering what I could have done differently. It is a big puzzle.
I believe that there should be a mandatory police report written up. It does not have to be filed and acted upon until the person having child sexual abuse is more comfortable in doing so. The other side of the coin is while this police report is taken down, there could be some discrete communication to the alleged molester stating that full cooperation is needed or there could be a very public investigation and court case. There needs to be direct action taken with lie detector tests and tests of course of mental capacity of the alleged survivor of child sexual abuse.
Since I did not fill out this form and have not seen it I do not know if there is a name for that report.
Since there is not a sister note attached to the police report as yet it will need to be named.
Direct action. If the alleged survivor is in fact mentally impaired there needs to be evaluations done and possible medications given.
If you find through what ever means available that the alleged molester did in fact act sexually upon the child there needs to be action to make sure they never molest again.
I honestly believe this all could be done very discretely. All you have to do is bring your honesty to the table. Try to remember "Though Shalt Not Lie".
